Mom Has An Affair – Full Review
Welcome to Mom Has An Affair – Full Review. This drama is about a young, single mother, her family, and overcoming all obstacles for the sake of love. If you haven’t watched this drama yet, I recommend checking out my unspoiled review here.
Mom Has An Affair
♥ Aired: May 4 – October 23, 2020
♥# of Episodes: 122
♥Where to Watch: Viki
♥Genre: Family Drama
♥Starring: Hyun Jyu Ni and Lee Jae Hwang
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The Story
Welcome to my Mom Has An Affair – Unspoiled Review. A single mom has spent her life struggling to make ends meet to provide for her family, while hoping to fulfill her dream of becoming a full time PE teacher. So she is shocked and hurt when her children come to her and beg her to get married so that they can have a rich and handsome dad. For their sake, she agrees to try, but things get complicated when a picky male lodgers moves into their room upstairs. Though they don’t get off to a great start, living together brings them closer and feelings start to develop for both of them. But someone who needs lodging in their home is obviously not rich and will not pass the test for her children. Or is there more to his story than they assume?
The Leads
Hyun Jyu Ni as Oh Pil Jung
Oh Pil Jung is a single mom who dreams of becoming a full-time PE teacher. Her life isn’t glamourous, but she is content. But one day a mysterious man forces his way into her home as a lodger in their extra upstairs room. Pil Jung doesn’t plan on falling in love with him, but that is exactly what happens. Unfortunately, their past history and the lives of their families are much more deeply entwined than either of them could ever imagine. As secret after secret are revealed and his family does their best to break them apart, she can only rely on him and their feelings for each other to hold them together.
Hyun Jyu Ni fit this part well. She is kind, even to those who don’t deserve it. It is admirable that she rarely takes time to wallow in self-pity and manages to stay positive, no matter what rotten things life throws at her. She even makes the transition from sweatsuits and track clothes to business attire look easy. Her character isn’t especially unique but she is consistent and easy to emphathize with.
Lee Jae Hwang as Kang Seok Jun
Kang Seok Jun is the second son of the chairman of LX Corporation. While he grew up in a wealthy family, his life hasn’t been easy. He has always been favored by his father as the best heir for the company, but his mother and brother both hate him and want his older brother to inherit the company. He originally moves in with Pil Jung’s family to convince them to sell their house to LX so they can put a new building in it’s place. But as he gets to know all of them and understand their reasons for wanting to stay in their house, he tries to find a way to help them save it. Never one to examine his own heart, it takes him awhile to realize that his feelings for Pil Jung and her family are more than just pity. Now he wants to protect his father’s company and Pil Jung from his mean-spirited brother and greedy mother.
Seok Jun is a stable, loyal kind of guy. There were times when it felt like he could have made things a lot easier if he wasn’t so determined to please everyone. I did appreciate the way he stepped up to act like a dad for Min Ho and Min Ji. Their interactions were sweet to watch. I also like the fact that no matter how shocking a secret was revealed, he never let it come between him and Pil Jung. He took everything in stride and always stayed true to his promise to stay by her side no matter once. And it definitely wasn’t always easy.
Supporting Characters
Kim Hyung Beom and Moon Bo Ryung as Kang Seok Hwan and Lee Eun Joo
Kang Seok Hwan is Seok Jun’s older brother. He meets Lee Eun Joo after standing her up for a blind date and falls hopelessly in love. These 2 are scheming and terribly all the way through. All they care about is making Seok Hwan the chairman. They manipulate every situation, including each other when needed. I guess they did their jobs as the villains because I had no problem hating them!
Seo Hyun Suk and Nam Yi An as Lee Tae Woo and Oh Sun Jung
Oh Sun Jung is Pil Jung’s younger sister. She has lived with Pil Jung and helped her raise her family since Pil Jung’s husband’s death. She is gutsy and has no problem fighting the system to get what she wants. She falls in love with Eun Joo’s younger brother, which infuriates Eun Joo. These 2 manages to rise above all the drama of their families and stay fair and grounded through it all.
Gil Jung Woo and Hong Je Yi as Park Min Ho and Park Min Ji
Min Ho and Min Ji are Pil Jung’s children. Min Ho is the middle-school son who actually isn’t her biological son, although he doesn’t find out until much later. Min Ji is the daughter Pil Jung was pregnant with when her husband died, so she has never had a father. It’s easy to understand why she would be jealous of the other kids in her class who all have dads. The 2 have a good relationship, so their scenes together are fun to watch. But I do feel sorry for their mom on occassion, when the kids get an idea into their heads and refuse to be denied.
Things I Liked
♥ Rock Steady Guys
So, Seok Jun’s character was not bad. But let’s give a shout-out to 2 of the male characters who never wavered in their loyalty and support. First off, Lee Tae Woo, was always there to defend Sun Joo from his mom and sister. Without causing a lot of drama, he would step in and support her. I really loved how mature and calm he was through everything. It’s unusual, especially in such a long drama, to find a character that doesn’t mess things up at least once. When Tae Woo and Sun Joo first moved in with his mom, he was a little slow to catch on to what was happening and I was afraid he might blow his great track record. But once he figured it out, he stepped right in to fix it.
Second is Wang Gi Beom, Seok Jun’s friend and eventually co-worker. Again, at some point the friend who knows all the secrets usually falls for some trap that causes the lead trouble. But this guy knew it all and kept everything to himself all the way through. It would have been easy to gossip with his other co-workers, but he kept quiet and was an amazing friend from start to finish.
♥Choi Yoo Kyung
Choi Yoo Kyung did a terrific job as Dr. Choi’s daughter and Pil Jung’s student. Her character started out rough and I wasn’t sure, but I see great things in the future for this young actress. Yoo Kyung’s support of her dad’s love life was very cute. I also enjoyed the friendship she had with her coach and Min Ho. I liked that even though Min Ho had a crush on her, they focused on them as friends and left the budding romance to the adults. She handled the role well and showed maturity in her acting.
♥No Yo-Yo Break Ups
With such a long drama, it is amazing that Mom Has An Affair managed to avoid the kdrama trope that includes a break up and reconciliation every few episodes. Each couple did experience a near break up, which is necessary to keep the drama plot moving, but it wasn’t a continuous cycle like many others. This also meant that they needed to find other plot twists to tell the story, which kept things interesting. It would have been easy to fall into that kind of cycle, so I appreciated their effort to offer some variety to the storylines.
Things I Didn’t Like
Lee Eun Joo
I already said above that Lee Eun Joo played her role of villain to perfection, which made me hate her character completely, but I really got tired of her scheming evil facial expression straight into the camera to end every scene. Whether the expression was complete with a snickering smile or a shocked panic, it was always the same and got really irritating as time went on. In a drama that tended toward overacting anyway, she was way over-the-top.
A Practice Marriage
The solution of Tae Woo’s mom to have Tae Woo and Sun Jung live together as if they were married but promise not to get married for a year made no sense to me. Does that really work? What would make her think that was a good way to break them up? It just seemed bizarre to me. And, of course, she ended up pregnant. That doesn’t seem like much of surprise to me. I’ve never seen a show use this strategy before and I thought it was really weird and irrational.
Dr. Choi
I thought Dr. Choi was good as a friend who supported Pil Jung through the school stuff, but I just didn’t buy him as a second lead love interest. I know that he and Pil Jung have kids who are a similar age, but he seems so much older than Pil Jung and there really was no real chemistry between them. This storyline was a dead-end for me and it felt like a waste of screen time.
The Ending
The ending of Mom Has An Affair was pretty good. First of all, it was happy to see a show where justice actually wins in the end. There was no last minute redemption or change of heart. Seeing Seok Hwan, his mom, and Eun Joo all end up in jail was strangely satisfying. Even with all of their efforts to change the outcome with the police, in the end, each of them was left to face their own actions. Both Pil Jung and Sun Jung ended up with a happily ever after. Min Ji finally got her dad and Min Ho made peace with his dad before he was sent off to prison. And Seok Jun’s dad will have Pil Jung and her family to fill his empty house, now that everyone else has been locked up.
Should I Watch
It should go without saying that these long family dramas are not for everyone, and the 122 episode version in particular. I grew up watching American style soap operas with my mom, and these feel very similar. Mom Has an Affair features long drawn out plots about birth secrets and double identities, overly dramatic acting and facial expressions, and in between it all, a star-crossed love story. Maybe it’s the feeling of nostalgia for me, but I enjoy the ride, long though it may be. I also enjoy getting to know a whole family at one time. It gives some variation to the storylines, which is nice. If you have the patience and enjoy a longer format, Mom Has An Affair was a good story with some good characters and some hateable villains. I give Mom Has An Affair a 7 out of 10 ramen.
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