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Thirty-Nine – Full Review
Welcome to Thirty-Nine – Full Review. Three life-long friends face new joys and struggles on the eve of their 40’s. If you haven’t watched this drama yet, I recommend checking out my unspoiled review here.
Thirty-Nine
♥ Aired: February 16 – March 31, 2022
♥# of Episodes: 12
♥Where to Watch: Netflix
♥Genre: Life Drama
♥Starring: Son Ye Jin, Jeon Mi Do and Kim Ji Hyun
The Story
Three best friends, who have known each other since their teen years, get ready to face their 40’s together. Through thick and thin, their friendship has stood the test of time. But when news of a terminal illness shows up at a routine medical exam, their lives will be rocked to their core. Now it will take everything they have to stay strong for each other in the face of their most difficult trial.
The Leads
Son Ye Jin as Cha Mi Jo
Cha Mi Jo is a successful doctor who owns her own dermatology clinic. But the stress of achieving her goals and dreams has left her with extreme panic attacks and an inability to sleep without medication. So, at the recommendation of her counselor, she is getting ready to take a sabbatical in the US to play golf and relax. But an uncharacteristic one night stand with the guy she hired to fill in for her while she is away, leaves her tempted to stay and see where their relationship takes them. And when her best friend is diagnosed with terminal cancer, she has no choice but to cancel, or at least postpone, her plans. She will spend the next 6 months taking care of her friend and helping her prepare for her inevitable death.
Jeon Mi Do as Jeong Chan Young
Jeong Chan Young is an acting coach who lost her chance to become an actress after missing her first audition. She is having an “emotional affair” with a man she dated when she was younger, even though he is now married. She still hopes he will divorce his wife and marry her. When a routine medical exam reveals that she has terminal cancer, she is forced to prepare herself and all those she loves for the end of her life. As her friends and family gradually find out the truth about her condition, she is met with new challenges and struggles, as she is forced to look at the blessings and regrets of her too-short life.
Kim Ji Hyun as Jang Joo Hee
Jang Joo Hee works at the make-up department of a big shopping mall. When she was younger, her single mother was diagnosed with cancer, and Joo Hee was forced to put her own dreams aside to support them financially. But, on the brink of her 40’s, she begins to wonder what dreams she can still achieve and what job would best suit her. When her favorite neighborhood restaurant changes ownership, she is annoyed and disappointed. But the new owner is charming and easy to talk to, and she finds herself developing feelings for him. As she deals with Chan Young’s illness and her own feelings of being a third wheel in their 3-person friendship, she relies more and more on Hyun Joon’s kind support.
Supporting Characters
Yeon Woo Jin as Kim Seon Woo
Kim Seon Woo is hired by Mi Jo on a mutual friend’s recommendation. So when he meets a mysterious and beautiful woman volunteering at a local orphanage, he has no idea she is his new boss. He falls for her instantly, and despite her hesitations he pursues her attention, both at work and outside. He grew up in the US but returned to Korea to re-connect with his adopted sister, who is estranged from their father.
Lee Moo Saeng as Kim Jin Seok
Kim Jin Seok is in love with Jeong Chan Young. They dated in their 20’s, but when Jin Seok went abroad to study, he met another woman and married her after she became pregnant. But even with a wife and son, he has never been able to let go of his love for Chan Young. So he and Chan Young go on dates and obviously love each other, although they have never crossed the line physically since his marriage. Just when Jin Seok finally gets the courage to ask his wife for a divorce, he finds out about Chan Young’s cancer. He begs her to marry him, but she continues to refuse in the face of her pending death.
Lee Tae Hwan as Park Hyun Joon
Park Hyun Joo gave up a successful job as a chef at a fancy hotel restaurant to open his own place in a small neighborhood. While it makes him happy to be running his own business, his younger girlfriend keeps pressuring him to go back to his old job, which is more prestigious. He meets Jang Joo Hee, who lives in the same area his new shop is in, and the two become closer when she stops in regularly for dinner and drinks.
Things I Liked
♥ Mi Jo’s Family
Mi Jo’s family was such a wonderful breath of fresh air in this drama. Her parents’ loving relationship and their love and acceptance of both of their daughters was heartwarming. And Mi Hyun was a great addition to this cast. I loved the idea that rather than being jealous of her adopted sister, she was the one responsible for bringing her home in the first place. Her obvious adoration of Mi Jo was always sweet to watch.
♥ Funeral
The idea of letting Chan Young have her funeral with her friends before her death was such a wonderful concept. I know it’s not totally new, but we so often miss the opportunity to send our loved ones away with the love and support of all those who touched their lives. It was a beautiful tribute to her life and relationships.
♥ Kim Seon Woo
I swear the character of Kim Seon Woo could not be more perfect. Everything about this guy was just so endearing and crush-worthy. He was the perfect match for all of Mi Jo’s well constructed walls. And the fact that he was willing to stand up to his overbearing father to support both of the women that he loved was amazing. I really loved him and any scene that included him.
Things I Didn’t Like
Main Character
I know that every source will tell you that all three friends were leads in this drama. But am I the only one who felt like the majority of the story was really told through Mi Jo’s eyes? Not that I mind that; Mi Jo was an interesting and complex character, but it seems like they should have just named her as the lead. You would think that since Chan Young was the one dying, there would have been more scenes about her and her journey. And poor Joo Hee really didn’t get nearly enough screen time or character development.
Chan Young’s Death
For a drama that revolved around preparing for Chan Young’s death, her actual death seemed kind of anti-climatic. Of course, I appreciate it that they didn’t try to wring every last tear out of our breaking hearts. But even so, I would have liked a bit more time on the topic and getting to see the group band together to deal with their grief in the moment, instead of only after the fact.
No Marriage
I really wish that Chan Young would have married Jin Seok before she died. Jin Seok submitted the paperwork for his divorce before he found out about Chan Young’s illness, so she can’t say he was only doing it out of pity. And as the one who will have to live on without her, I felt like she should have left him with at least that much memory.
The Ending
“Thirty-Nine” ends on the sad note we have all been preparing for since the beginning of the series, but also with some hope. Chan Young dies quietly, we can assume with Jin Seok at her side. Everyone meets at the hospital to see her off, although Mi Jo can’t bring herself to watch the final moments before her body is cremated. Moving ahead, we see that each friend is doing their best to fulfill the promise they made to Chan Young. Mi Jo and Joo Hee are spending more time together. Both of their relationships are going well, and Mi Jo is still engaged. They visit Chan Young’s grave together and as they walk away, they talk about how much they miss her, but Chan Young would be happy to know they are living well without her.
Should I Watch
“Thirty-Nine” is an emotional life drama that shows you right from episode 1 that this will end in a funeral. You know going in that there will be tears, but the journey along the way has some funny and beautiful moments that make it all worthwhile. It is a drama about love, loss, and friendship. Don’t expect a light-hearted rom-com. But if you don’t mind a few tears, this story is well-told and the characters are realistic and vivid. I give “Thirty-Nine” an 8 out of 10 ramen.
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