Not Others – Full Review
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Not Others – Full Review
Welcome to Not Others – Full Review. A single mom and her adult daughter learn to navigate their relationship as grown women. If you haven’t watched this drama yet, I recommend checking out my unspoiled review here.
Not Others
♥ Aired: July 17 – August 22, 2023
♥# of Episodes: 12
♥Where to Watch: Viki
♥Genre: Mystery Romance Drama
♥Starring: Jeon Hye Jin and Choi Soo Young
The Story
A single mom gives birth to a daughter while she is still in high school, and has spent her whole life growing up alongside her. But now that her daughter is an adult with a life of her own, their relationship is entering into a new phase. Since the pair are still living together, there are plenty of new areas to chart. And things become even more complicated when a man from her past comes back into her life hoping for a second chance. Meanwhile, her daughter’s new job working for the local police department puts them in the middle of a dangerous investigation involving a murder.
The Leads
Jeon Hye Jin as Kim Eun Mi
Kim Eun Mi got pregnant while she was still in high school. And the closeness in age as her daughter, Jin Hee, was growing up made them seem more like sisters at times. Now, Jin Hee is an adult, working in a small police station and Eun Mi works as a physical therapist in a local clinic. When Eun Mi jumps into the middle of an attack by a neighborhood “stalker”, she becomes a target for his anger and violence. And her daughter is determined to make sure Eun Mi is protected at all times. When Eun Mi’s first love, and Jin Hee’s father, suddenly shows back up in her life, Jin Hee enlists his help in keeping her mom safe.
Kim Eun Mi is daring, youthful, and stubborn. She has lived her life flying in the face of social expectations and pressures. And although she has dated lots of men, she never found anyone she loved as much as her first love. Accepting him back into her life after so many years, comes with plenty of risk. But Jin Hong is determined to win her back. Jeon Hye Jin has made a career of these tough, outspoken characters. She plays them well and brings just a touch of passionate over-acting to the table, that works with these kinds of roles.
Choi Soo Young as Kim Jin Hee
Kim Jin Hee had a good job working at the central police station in Seoul before she steps on the wrong toes and gets demoted to team leader at a small, neighborhood substation. And as luck would have it, she isn’t the only one. Her mentor from Police Academy days is also there. But misunderstandings between the two of them has left their relationship awkward. And to make matters worse, decisions made at the head office have left a bad taste in the mouths of all her new co-workers. Now it will take all of her efforts to get into their tight-knit circle.
Kim Jin Hee grew up with her young, chaotic mother. And this causes her to often assume the responsible, mature role in their relationship. This is probably also what attracted her to becoming a police officer. But now that she is able to see her mom through adult eyes, she is learning some important lessons about her, not just as a person but also as a woman. I really like Choi Soo Young and I feel like she has a nice sense of subtle comedic timing. She and Jeon Hye Jin had a great rapport and their interactions, both serious and sincere and more humorous, were the highlight of this drama for me.
Supporting Characters
Ahn Jae Wook as Park Jin Hong
Park Jin Hong is Kim Jin Hee’s father and Eun Mi’s first love. He and Eun Mi met when she was still in high school, but his parents broke them up before he ever found out she was pregnant. After losing her, he threw himself into college and work, and never settled down. But now he has found her again and he hopes to live out the rest of his life with her at his side, no matter what his family thinks about it.
Park Sung Hoon as Eun Jae Won
Eun Jae Won is the director of the substation Jin Hee is transferred to. He was also demoted to the substation for political reasons and hopes to eventually earn back his position at the Head Office. He knew Jin Hee during their police academy training time andhas always had feelings for her, but he has kept it hidden and pretends to be annoyed by her. But as the two of them are thrown together on the job, they both realize that they have feelings for each other.
Kim Hye Eun as Kim Mi Jung
Kim Mi Jung is Eun Mi’s best friend. When Eun Mi’s parents found out she was pregnant, they kicked her out of their house and she went to live with Mi Jung and her grandmother. Mi Jung adores Jin Hee and takes her role as honarary aunt very seriously. On one of Mi Jung’s visits to Eun Mi at her clinic, Mi Jung meets the director of the clinic and develops a crush on him, but he is slow to pick up on her hints.
Things I Liked
♥ Mature Themes
This series takes a modern approach to slice of life drama. It tackles some difficult themes with a slice of honesty and humor. I liked that it committed to the topics without trying to sugarcoat any of it. The idea of reaching an age where we can see our parents as individuals with dreams and desires is an important one. And the leads are able to talk about things that might be hard to talk about even with friends your own age, as shown by Jin Hee’s conversations with her best friend about her mom.
♥ Role Reversal
Parental role reversal isn’t exactly a unique theme, although I think this drama handled it particulary well. Jin Hee’s need to try to keep in her mom in check, while Eun Mi continually spun out of control made for some good, humorous moments. But what I loved is that through some solid character development, we see both of them embraced the other side of their personalities. As Jin Hong’s stable presence lends some maturity to Eun Mi, Jin Hee is seen embracing her youthful, free side with her world-wide trip.
♥ No Instant Family
So many dramas have an estranged parent show up and make them suddenly a close happy family, with no real thought to the time it takes to form those kinds of bonds. I liked that this series took its time before Jin Hee could acknowledge her dad at all, let alone as a parent. Even by the end, they had reached a mutual affection, but they were still a long way from Jin Hee asking for fatherly advice. I appreciated this more realistic approach to relationships and parental reunions.
Things I Didn’t Like
Crime and Politics
I never felt like the politics at the police station were ever explained in a way that made them worth the screen time. The story seemed kind of vague and rather pointless. True, both Jin Hee and Jae Won are transferred because of politics and injustice in the system, but that’s really all we need to know. The same is true of the stalker story. The fact that he was following Eun Mi is important but his other victim and the investigation itself was kind of a wasted story that disappeared as soon as he was caught, with no explanation of who he was or why he did it.
Jin Hee and Jae Won
I really enjoyed the sweet interactions between Jin Hee and Jae Won and I’m happy they ended up “together”, at least from a distance. But it seemed a bit anticlimatic considering the years of build up. I just wish they would have devoted a bit more time to their relationship and what that looked like after they finally confessed their feelings. I felt like Eun Mi and Jin Hong’s relationship was handled so much better. I just wish we could have seen similar scenes between Jin Hee and Jae Won.
Secondary Character Development
Slice of life dramas don’t always feel the need to develop every character they introduce, which I get. But there were a couple characters in this drama that had some important storylines that seemed like they deserved more screentime and development. On the top of my list would be Mi Jung’s grandmother, who is so pivotal in Eun Mi’s life and Jin Hee’s best friend and first “love” Jin Su. I just wish we could have seen a bit more about these characters.
The Ending
The ending of “Not Others” is as simple and to the point as the rest of the drama. Mi Jung’s grandmother passes away and we find out that she had included Eun Mi and Jin Hee on her family registry, and left them a large portion of her estate. Jin Hee finds out that after cracking the case she is being promoted back to the head office. But she just isn’t excited about it. Later she decides to take a year off and travel the world by herself. Eun Mi has a hard time accepting her decision, but Jin Hong helps her understand she needs to let go a bit. Jae Won tells Jin Hee that he will be there waiting for her. At the airport, Jin Hee runs into Eun Mi, who is carrying her own backpack. At first Jin Hee is upset that her mom is intruding on her independence, but Eum Mi tells her she is taking her own trip to walk the Santiago Trail. Back in the neighborhood, we see both Jin Hong and Jae Won hanging out at the local convenience story, each waiting for their ladies to return.
Should I Watch
“Not Others” is a life drama with a sprinkle of crime drama, romance, and comedy thrown in. But at it’s heart, this is a drama about the ever-changing relationship between mothers and daughters. I admit that, even for a fan of life dramas, this one started slow for me. It took me quite a while to warm up to the story and characters. But the chemistry between the female leads was fun to watch and I enjoyed the mom’s romance story. There were definitely plots I would have liked to see developed more, but as a slice of life story, it had plenty of unique charm. I give “Not Others” an 8 out of 10 ramen.
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