Lost – Full Review
Welcome to Lost – Full Review. Two strangers who have lost their way in life come together in an unlikely friendship that teaches them it’s never too late to rediscover hope. If you haven’t watched this drama yet, I recommend checking out my unspoiled review here.
Lost
♥ Aired: September 4 – October 24, 2021
♥# of Episodes: 16
♥Where to Watch: iQIYI
♥Genre: Life Drama
♥Starring: Jeon Do Yeon and Ryu Joon Yeol
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The Story
Lee Boo Jeong is a 40 year old ghost writer in a failing marriage who has recently lost her job. Her life feels overwhelming and frustrating. When she has a random encounter with a handsome young male “stand-in” who lives down the hall from her father, she is curiously drawn to him even though they seem to have nothing at all in common. As fate continues to bring them together, they become closer and through conversation and sharing their hopes and fears, they find out that they are really not so different after all. They also learn that it’s never too late to rediscover hope and learn to live again.
The Leads
Jeon Do Yeon as Lee Boo Jeong
Lee Boo Jeong is a 40 year old writer who recently got fired from her job, but she is hiding that fact from her family. Secretly she has taken on a job as a private maid. Due to a strained marriage and a nosy mother-in-law, she spends most of her free time with her aging father. A chance encounter with one of her father’s neighbors leads her into a deep and complex relationship with a younger man. Despite their many obvious differences, the two share a connection that brings them both comfort and strength.
At 40, Lee Boo Jeong feels like she has failed to make anything of her life. She lost her job, her marriage is falling apart, and she suffers from depression because of a miscarriage that left her unable to have children. The one bright spot is a sweet and supportive father who is slowly succumbing to dementia. Before meeting Lee Kang Jae, she had even considered suicide. But finding someone who she could open up to and share her heart with helped her to finally reject society’s definition of success and live for her own fulfillment. I love this character and I think Joen Do Yeon was amazing in the role. She conveyed a depth of emotion, often with no words at all. Seldom have I found a character more relateable or engaging and her relationship with Kang Jae was beautifully precious.
Ryu Joon Yeol as Lee Kang Jae
Lee Kang Jae has his own business as a “stand-in”. From posing as a boyfriend to turning in someone’s resignation letter, he assumes the role for whatever he is paid to do. A chance encounter with his neighbor’s daughter on a public bus leads to an unusual friendship. Their relationship becomes complicated when an old friend of Kang Jae’s offers him a job digging up dirt on Boo Jeong. But the more Kang Jae gets to know her, the more he is drawn to her.
Lee Kang Jae has made a choice to value money over anything else in life. His business is thriving and he has rich women showering him with expensive gifts, but he still feels empty and unfullfilled. When he meets Boo Jeong, he sees her as a soulmate. She is someone who understands him without judging the choices he has made. After 5 years, Ryu Joon Yeol is back on the small screen and it was definitely worth the wait. He is fantastic in this role and I loved his transparent portrayal of the character. His scenes with Jeon Do Yeon were heartfelt and moving.
Supporting Characters
Park Byung Eun as Jin Jung Soo
Jin Jung Soo is Lee Boo Jeong’s husband. They have been married for years and have slowly drifted apart. Jung Soo is still in love with his first love, who he sees from time to time. When he confessed to Boo Jeong that he had seen her a year ago, it led to Boo Joeng’s miscarriage, which drove a bigger wedge into their already struggling marriage.
Park In Hwan as Lee Chang Sook
Lee Chang Sook is Boo Jeong’s aging father. He lives alone and is beginning to show signs of dementia. He makes money gathering cardboard off the streets to sell to recyclers. Even though Boo Jeong helps support him financially, he enjoys working because it makes him feel useful and productive.
Yoo Soo Bin as Lee Sun Joo (Ttak Yi)
Lee Sun Joo has been close friends with Kang Jae since they were young. While Kang Jae is jaded and cynical, Sun Joo is innocent and pure. Kang Jae feels the need to protect him. Sun Joo lives with his older sister and her boyfriend. He has a crush on Kang Jae’s business partner, Min Jung.
Things I Liked
♥ Cinematography
This drama felt like a 16 episode indie film, and I loved it for it. The hushed narration, emotional music, and dark lighting created a moody vibe that fit the story perfectly. This series was all about setting the proper tone and letting the audience become immersed in it.
♥ Boo Jeong and Her Father
For me, Boo Jeong and her father were a highlight of this story. Their relationship was playful, accepting, and showed a sincere love that was almost tangible. Boo Jeong never treated him like he was a burden or questioned his ability to do the things he loved. It has been quite the year for Park In Hwan and I love the quiet wisdom he brings to all of his roles. I looked forward to Boo Jeong’s scenes with him so much.
♥ Characters and Cast
A drama that relies so heavily on dialogue and narration depends on well-written characters and talented actors to pull it off. Luckily, this series has that in spades. It was a breath of fresh air to have characters who seemed so real and the actors made you understand and empathize with them in a wonderful way. I can’t say enough about how much I enjoyed getting to know and be inspired by them.
Things I Didn’t Like
Woo Nam’s Ex
Woo Nam’s whole story is a little strange. He just lives with Lee Soon Kyu and expects her to wait on him with no real commitment. But the scene of his ex-wife coming over to hang out, watch tv, break a dish, and then just leave was really weird. It seems like she is having some difficulty accepting the divorce and I get that. But still. Most ex-wife’s don’t come to their ex-husbands’ girlfriend’s house unannounced, just to visit.
Jung Soo
I appreciated that in the end it was obvious that Jung Soo was really broken-hearted that their relationship had come to this. But I felt like he missed plenty of opportunities along the way to protect and encourage Boo Jeong. First, when he refused to take her side when his mother was bullying her. And second, when he talked so negatively about her to his co-worker. Boo Jeong felt like her father was the only one on her side and I can’t blame her for feeling that way.
Lee Kyung Eun’s husband
Lee Kyung Eun’s husband was a beautifully written character. I loved the empathy he showed when he cried for a fellow patient, even though he was obviously suffering so much himself. But I would have expected a sympathetic character like that to want his wife to live the rest of her life to it’s fullest. So leaving Kyung Eun with no answer, to feel guilt for trying to find love again seemed out of character to me.
The Ending
A drama as raw and real as “Lost” would seem insincere if they gave us a neat, tidy ending with lots of perfectly tied bows. Instead, what we get are glimmers of hope that our characters are finally on the road to happiness. But first we have the sad death of Chang Sook. I hate painful goodbyes, but in this case it really fit the context of the drama. His death leads Boo Jeong and Jung Soo to finally have a real conversation about their relationship, and they realize that while they still love each other very much, they are no longer in love. After their talk, Boo Jeong deletes all the photos and contact information for Kang Jae. Woo Nam moves out of Soon Kyu’s house, not so they can break up, but so he can actually start dating her properly. Min Jung makes a vague confession about wanting to make her relationship with Sun Joo official, which is enough to put a silly grin on his face. Then a small time jump shows Min Jung working at a coffee shop where Kang Jae and Sun Joo come to visit. She and Kang Jae have a funny exchange that shows a lighter, more playful side to Kang Jae. Min Jung flirts with Sun Joo while exchanging payment, showing that they are indeed dating and doing well together. As Kang Jae leaves the store, he gets a text about a star gazing event coming up in Seoul. Next we see a confident and professional Boo Jeong meeting her old co-worker to get some free-lance work. Noticeably missing is her wedding ring. Her co-worker tells her that Jung Ah Ran has finally divorced that jerk and has come clean about her son in Canada. As she catches a bus home, Boo Jeong sees a poster about the star-gazing event. In the final scene, we see Kang Jae take a seat in the auditorium to watch the stars. As he glances across the aisle, his eyes meet Boo Jeong’s. They both smile and neither can look away, although neither of them seem at all surprised. The rest is up to you, but I believe that they have a bright future together.
Should I Watch
Let me start by saying this drama isn’t for everyone. It is very slow moving and covers some heavy topics like depression, abuse, and suicide. It is character driven and the plot is moved along mostly by narration and in-depth conversations, with very little action. But what I loved about this series were the mature, realistic characters who struggled with the kinds of problems normal people often encounter as they travel the road of life. And for those with the patience to stick it out, the take-away message is one of hope and new beginnings. If you like slower, more mature dramas like “My Mister” or “Should We Kiss First”, this one is definitely a must-see. I give “Lost” an 9 out of 10 ramen.
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It’s slow but I loved every character portrayed by actors. They gave justification to the role assigned to them. And the story can really happened in real life. Depression really sucks…. To have someone who can understand you and will not take advantage of you will be uplifting…
I agree. I loved these characters so much. I wish it were offered on more streaming platforms.
murrican but an early adopter of Kdrama. This is one of the the very best I’ve seen yet. Cracking good acting, dialogue, cinematography, directing, etc. At times, so much was said, implied, put forth for the viewer to contemplate, yet done with only a glance or a camera shot or an eerily complementary song (a shout out to Cho Sung Woo for a lovely score). A beautifully crafted series which realistically brings complex topics and emotions to the fore without cheapening any of them.
Well said. I still think back on this drama often. Still a favorite of mine for just the reasons you shared. Such a beautiful piece of cinema!